From an outside-in perspective, readers will understand why pride in a Dutch context does not translate well to the same emotion in United States, or why one's anger at a boss does not mean the same as your anger at a partner in a close relationship. By looking outward at relationships at work, school and home, we can better judge how our emotions will be understood, how they might change a situation and how they change us.

Brilliantly synthesising original psychological studies and stories from peoples across time and geography, Between Us skilfully argues that acknowledging differences in emotions allows us to find common ground, humanising and humbling us all for the better.